Signs you're falling in love
Falling in love is a complicated thing. You might know that you're falling in love with someone just from a small gesture they do for you, or a single conversation. So, to help you tell whether or not you're falling in love with someone, we’re sharing three signs that are obvious indicators you are falling for that special person.
💭 You share amazingly deep conversations
When was the last time you used so much brain power to share your thoughts about a particular subject with someone? If it happens with that particular person quite often, you might just be falling in love. Whether the topic involves your goals and aspirations, or you’re able to let all your conspiracy theories out and debate for hours on end, these conversations may be the primary spark to a loving relationship.
⌛ They make your time worthwhile
Let’s go into story mode. Alice starts dating a guy called Trevor, and finds herself very happy with him. She starts counting the number of hours she has left with him in her head, and panics because time is flying.
Later on, Alice has some time alone to overthink a little longer. She looks back at all the years that have gone by and wonders whether she has spent her time wisely to make her life worthwhile. Trevor’s face enters her mind, and she is more than happy with those recent memories with him.
A scenario like this indicates you want to continue living a life filled with new exciting adventures based on your lovely memories with the other person. Oh, and if you find yourself smiling or laughing when reminiscing those memories, it’s a sure sign Cupid’s arrow struck you.
💞 Your happiness is directly related to their happiness
Relying on someone for emotional satisfaction (or any kind of satisfaction) can turn into a toxic cycle. Empathizing, however, is a totally different experience, so when a loved one is going through something you can’t help but feel the same way. This is a clear indication you love someone. When they’re upset, you’re upset. When they’re happy, it motivates you to make them even happier.
Let’s go right back into story mode with Alice and Trevor. Alice is in a good mood, and Trevor senses this. He loves the way she smiles, and enjoys hearing her laugh, so he intends to ignite her positive mood by filling the gaps with jokes, physical affection, and talking about things that will make her happy. Her happiness makes Trevor happy. In other words, Trevor is smitten, with no regrets.
So after reading the 3 obvious signs you’re falling in love, can you relate? Do you have a tendency in sharing your deepest thoughts? Do you find yourself smiling back at memories with that special person? Do you strive to make them happy? If so, you are totally in love.